While watching the Finale Episode of Basketball Wives, I was less than flattered with Ocho Cinco informing Evelyn that he could improve her body. I instantly thought who does that? The very first time we are face to face and he was critiquing her. I thought quite an interesting way to start off a date, especially on television. *shrugs*
Shortly after a deep breath and a sip of my beverage of the evening, I starting to think about how foolishly it would be to expect the perfect guy to be roaming around the city, because he’s not.
The sooner you realize this sad but true fact, the sooner you can get on with finding Mr. Close-Enough-To-Perfect. It’s important to realize that we all have flaws. We all speak out of term and sometimes our emotions can allow us to misspeak.
Yet, as we would want leeway and forgiveness we have to be able to offer it as well. Relationships are about growth. Being an adult and being able to communicate your likes and dislikes, without being hurtful and vowing to strive for improvements.
I don’t want anyone to settle for a guy, but reevaluate what’s important. Know what’s needed for your foundation, and be willing to find a partner to grow with. The things you can and cannot live without…
What is truly important to you in a future mate?…
Great Post! Funny picture! Damn!